Loni
Bowers of Victoria, BC
by Christopher BowersLoni Bowers is a key leader in
the ongoing work to restart Beyond War in British
Columbia. Very active in Beyond War in the '80's, she
really connected with the group spearheading the
resurgence of the movement at the Beyond War Annual
Meeting in April 2006. Upon returning home to Victoria
following that inspirational gathering, she and the
other members of the Victoria team have burst into
action, offering monthly introductory presentations to
friends, neighbors, community leaders and parliamentary
representatives, and facilitating the Beyond War study
series.
Loni loves working with people of all ages. Her
career has been in public education (she still tutors)
and as a leader with La Leche League and 4H. She is also
a producer of community theatre and a member of the
Christian Science church. She enjoys taking overall
responsibility for projects in which she has the
opportunity to help other people develop their talents
along the way.
For La Leche League (LLL) Loni was coordinator of
leader accreditation for British Columbia and associate
coordinator for Canada. Her responsibilities were to
develop leadership qualities in women and accredit them
to represent LLL, so that they also could help to
empower women to breastfeed and parent their children.
Her present role in La Leche League is teaching empathic
listening to prospective leaders, parents and others in
helping professions. She also facilitates workshops on
various topics including conflict resolution, empathic
confrontation and group leading.
These skills are very useful to her work in Beyond
War. Empathic listening is designed to help people
clarify their own feelings, summarize their situation
and so be empowered to move ahead and make their own
best decisions. The speaker feels respected and
eventually able to open up to listen and receive helpful
information.
In her Beyond War work Loni loves getting people to
think about things that they haven't thought about
before to see them moved. As Margaret Wheatley
reinforces in her book, Turning to One Another, a lot of
the work is taking the time, having the conversations
with people, one person at a time. She also very much
enjoys working closely with her husband, Christopher, on
Beyond War projects.
One of the questions that arose for Loni in
facilitating the Beyond War study series was, “What is
the role of citizens of one country when the actions of
another country are endangering all of our security?”
The answer that is emerging from the group discussion
is, "to witness, listen, educate, dialogue, and
facilitate collaboration". Her daughter Ashleigh, also
an active team member, adds, "Every responsibility that
a citizen of the offending country has, except for
voting."
Another question Loni is working with is, "Why do we
keep making it so complicated?" Periodically over the
past 3500 years, some inspirational person brings us
back to the directive (selfless, but ultimately selfish)
that we should treat others the way we would like to be
treated. As Jim, a member of our study series says,
"This is not rocket surgery." Why is it taking us so
long to get it? We know it but we keep losing track of
it. In the end it doesn't matter if your politics is
right or left -- as long as people get what they need
from somewhere.
From her work with Beyond War in the 80's and in the
present, spreading the message of Beyond War seems to
Loni to be the most simple and direct way of reaching
many people with the fundamental ideas we need to
survive, thrive and evolve.
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